Behind the Veil: Interview with Bride Patricia Ocampo-Gonzales

January 2014 launched me right into the bridal scene with the joyous celebration of the marriage of Patricia Ocampo and Antonio Gonzalez last January 3rd, at St. Benedict Church in Silang Cavite.  Patricia is the daughter of Larry and Roselen Ocampo who was instrumental in linking us together.   (Thanks, Roselen!)  Her mom is the showroom director at Kenneth Cobonpue.  This is her brief interview with me.

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Photo from Jorem and Sheila Catilo Photography

1. Please tell me a bit about yourself. What do you do for a living, what are your hobbies, passions? 

 I currently manage a Center that provides Applied Behavior Analysis services to children with developmental disabilities. During my free time I love to read, and write. I also do yoga to stay fit and sane. On weekends, my now-husband and I like to do apostolic work with the Church.” 

2. How did you find out about me (Acie Fores Makeup Artist)? What made you want to work with me?  

“I found out about you and what you do through my mom who had worked with her and liked her style. You were the first make up artist I did a trial with for my wedding and I chose you right away, not just because you are talented but because you aren’t one of those high-maintenance make-up artists that clients feel they need to please.  You are a humble and warm woman who makes one not just feel beautiful but very at ease.  You  also had a great partner as a hairstylist!”

3. How did you like the outcome of our time together, for your special day?

“I have no regrets in choosing you as my make up artist because you were able to realize my vision of a vintage inspired/day time smokey eyed bride for my special day.  I got plenty of compliments for my make-up, which also looked great in the photos and in the video. I was very happy with your work!” 

4. What’s one special memory you have of your wedding that you love? Could you share that photo with us?“We don’t have the complete set of photos yet, but please feel free to choose whatever you want to use from the Jorem and Sheila Catilo page.  My special memory is probably not unique, but it was the moment right when the doors of the Church opened for me to do my bridal march. I remember seeing my fiancé across the aisle in tears (just as I had hoped), and I was surprised to find myself in tears as well. Tears of joy of course! ” (Photo from Jorem and Sheila Catilo Photography)

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Thanks for sharing your insights with me, Patricia! All the best to you and your man!

As a parent and a mother, my day will come when it will be my turn to share my daughter with her special someone and I can only hope that she will be as grounded as Patricia who immediately knew what her priorities are.  She found a partner who contemplated and entered the priesthood but the vocation wasn’t meant to be.  Click here for the full story.

Another good sign that her partner was really a God given choice for her.  Talk about God working in his mysterious ways.  Her choice of work and her husband to be were all a big prelude to this big special day.   I also have no doubt that based on her work background, the virtue of patience culled from many hours of taking care of special children with needs,  the call of motherhood will come second nature to her.    I can’t wait to see the next chapter of  your lives.  I wish you and Antonio more blessings and joy to come.