Resilience in White: Behind the Veil Series, Beatriz Gonzales Marañon

 

Bride Bea Gonzales has recently penned a blog on her personal social media account narrating her struggles with mental health, her surgeries during childhood and her recent struggles coping with the pandemic.  Emotionally not easy.

I did her makeup and hair earlier this year sort of her Bridal trial if you will.  Her mom is a client of mine and we met during the 25th wedding anniversary celebration, which Bea organized for her parents.  She struck me as a sweet, polite and smart young woman and she still is, but beneath the smiles there is always a story.

I never knew about her struggles since she was 14 years old, the many surgeries and her diagnosed bi polar disorder.  She overcame them through the best support system she ever had, her parents, family and friends to get through her trials.  Her Mom Jo was instrumental in her healing like most mothers do, Moms help their children no matter the circumstances.

 

 

Here is our chat together:

1. Please tell me a bit about yourself. What do you do for a living, what are your hobbies, passions?

I’m Bea Gonzales-Marañon, an artist, writer, storyteller, and mental health advocate… who works in tech. It’s not your usual combination, but it’s been a fun experience shaking up the software industry with all sorts of out-of-the-box ideas.

2. What inspired the choice of your bridal makeup look, and how does it complement your overall wedding style?

I’ve been a client of Acie for years and at this point, I don’t even need to show her my pegs! For our wedding, my husband and I actually decided not to give most of our suppliers any pegs and gave them creative freedom. The result? Suppliers that really gave it their all. 

3. How did you like the outcome of our time together, for your special day?

As usual, I had fun working with Acie! We had a morning wedding, so prep time started at roughly 2:30 AM. That didn’t stop us from playing 90s music and working on q quirky reel, though. Acie was super game to take part in my shenanigans. 

4. What’s one special memory you have of your wedding that you love? Could you share that photo with us?

Exchanging our vows in private. It was such an intimate moment of pure love for each other. 

 

5). What was a good beauty moment for you during the wedding day itself?  

Having my photos taken in a forest-like area, as if I was in Taylor Swift’s Folklore era. The sun hit my face and gown just right to make the photos look ethereal… even if they were just taken in a vacant spot by the parking lot. 

 

6)  Favourite beauty product, application used during your wedding and why?

THE PREP. Every cold thing Acie put on my face felt so good and was much-needed after only a few hours of sleep. It was a nice, thoughtful step that I’ve noticed really sets her apart from other makeup artists I’ve worked with. 

7)  Any bridal tips you want to share for future brides planning their wedding? 

TRUST YOUR SUPPLIERS. There will always be setbacks and imperfections, and that’s totally okay! Trust me, when you treat your suppliers as friends and give them your full trust, they will do their best. Aim to be a Bridechilla, not a Bridezilla! 

Also, focus on your husband and yourself. When the couple feels the love, the guests feel the love. 

 

8)  What is one thing you could change during your wedding preparation?

Have the wedding a tiny bit later in the morning. More sleep is always a plus!

9)  Any beauty rituals you did or received that you want to share?

I went to my dermatologist (Aivee Clinic) 1 month, 2 weeks, and 1 week before the wedding. I had them analyze my skin and prepare a regimen that would keep my skin glowing ’til the event. 

 

10)  Favourite photo of you during the wedding and why.

Probably our couple photo in the Taylor Swift Folklore forest. It looked really magical and professional! Another would be our photo right after our private vows. We were both still teary-eyed, taking in each other’s words. 

 

11) Can you share any beauty rituals or skincare routines you followed in the weeks leading up to your wedding for that extra bridal glow?

I kept my skincare routine simple: Double cleanse, moisturize like there’s no tomorrow, add some anti-acne cream just in case, and drink lots of water.

12) What role did your makeup artist play in helping you feel confident and beautiful on your wedding day?

She enhanced my features, rather than make me look like a totally different person. She also made sure everything was water-proof and would remain intact until the end of the event. I didn’t even have to try to hold back my tears! I could let myself feel all the feels and take in every magical moment of the day. 

 

 

 

Bea’s journey was the courage to embrace vulnerability. She shattered the stigma surrounding mental health by openly sharing her struggles, breaking the silence that often surrounds these issues. She also inspired others to seek help without shame or fear.

“ Why aim for perfection, when you can instead aim to serve as an inspiration?”  Well said Brava Bea!

Photo :  Chissai for TeamPatdy
Gown:  Rolan Dysangco Cubillas
Makeup:  Acie Fores
Hair:  Susan Basaysay
Event Planner:  Kalila Events

A Different kind of Coronation

Mother’s Day is an American holiday  started by  Anna Jarvis who wanted to honor her activist Mom Ann Reeves Jarvis whose advocacy was to improve the health conditions of the impoverished women in the Appalachian region in the 1800’s.

This holiday is usually celebrated on the second Sunday of May to honor all mothers for their unwavering love and sacrifice in nurturing and raising their children.

While the day was observed as a legal holiday, celebrated with simplicity and reverence—church services were held in honor of all mothers, living and dead. Fast Forward to today, Mother’s Day has become mainstream by commercializing it’s significance with greeting cards, the sending of flowers and buying gifts to honor Mothers.

Regardless of how we celebrate this day,  there is no right or wrong way on how we choose to honor and express our love to the woman that we all call Mom, a simple gesture or a heartfelt message thanking and valuing our Moms is never a bad idea.  Here is mine.

 

A lawyer by profession, Kat Valdez Cruz is also a college administrator of Patts College of Aeronatics.  I share with you a snippet of Kat’s parenting style, a single widowed mother raising two beautiful and accomplished daughters Annika and Alessi.

Describe your parenting style.  Does it differ from one child to another?

“I think I’ve incorporated a little bit of how my parents raised me but mostly just figuring things out along the way. I’m quite stern and rigid. I had to be since I was left to raise the girls alone. But as I aged, I think I have mellowed from being very strict to being more flexible and accepting that things don’t always turn out how you want them to. The girls raised me as well. 😊”

What advice can or did you give to your daughters that you feel they took it to heart?

“I’ve raised my daughters to be strong and independent. I’ve always told them that life will not always be a bed of roses. It will be a series of trials and challenges. You must learn to persevere and remain steadfast. When it comes to finding a partner in life, I told them to use both smarts and prayer. It is my most fervent wish – that they find someone that will perfectly complement them and be a great partner in life.”

What have you learned as a parent in raising your girls?

 

 

 

“When the kids were younger and I had just lost Reymond, I sought the help of a therapist. She very clearly told me – your children will have a million friends. Don’t try to be a friend to them. They don’t need that. What they need is a parent who will keep them in place. A parent who will set the rules and who will make sure they follow them. Don’t try to be a friend and think you will get along 100% of the time. Be a parent because that’s what they need most from you. I take this to heart always.”

Have your children taught you something that you appreciate or appreciated?

 

“My children are my constant reminder that whatever I go through in life, it will always be good because I have them by my side. They are the ones who will stand by me even if I make mistakes and wrong decisions. They teach me everyday how to love with no limits and to be a better person in the process.”

What is your beauty routine?  Any favorite products?

“When I hit 40 a few years back, I realized that beauty routines are a must! We cannot rely on youth and natural beauty anymore,   now that I am 50! I apply sunscreen before I step out the door to exercise and re-apply before I go to the office. Moisturizers are a must as age dries out my skin. I also use eye creams and serums.  Seems like a lot but again, I think it’s necessary if we want our skin to remain supple and young. Its okay to age! I am not afraid of that. I however want to age gracefully – like my Mother. 😊”

Are there beauty products you share or your girls have shared with you that you loved?

 

Indoor florescent lighting or blue light from the computer can contribute to melasma and skin darkening too. Aging skin can be delayed by the regular use of Sunscreen on the face.

“We are beauty junkies! I love buying makeup and accessories but I don’t really know how to use them. My children are such great teachers! They’ve taught me the importance of applying contour, bronzer, highlights and more! At the moment, my most favorite beauty product is my sunblock stick. I love how it applies so seamlessly without having to touch the product and the application is not sticky at all.”

 

 What is your favorite photo/s from the shoot and why?

“I love all! You and Andrea made us shine! Thank you for this experience with my girls.”

10). Describe a beauty moment for you that changed the way you approach beauty or made your feel confident.

 

A sunscreen stick is always handy, don’t forget to reapply sunscreen during midday to protect your face from harmful UV rays.

“Ten years of doing a triathlon under the sun and extreme heat really aged my skin. I enjoyed the sport and did not realize how much it was affecting my skin. When I walked away from it, my skin changed as well. I was not as tanned which for me was a beauty mark. It’s what I believed was beautiful then. Now a few shades lighter but a few sizes bigger, (hehe) I am comfortable where my body is at. I find beauty in how I am today – older, fairer, chunkier but still keeping fit and happier.”

 

To all the Mothers who never cease to nurture, care, guide and love their children, a big thank you for all that you do and all that you are!  You are our Queens!

 

Makeup:  Acie Fores

Photography :  Andrea Zubiri Photography

 

Behind the Veil – Singson Camara Nuptials

Most of the time, simple is best.  It keeps things fluid, effortless and comfortable.  Michaela is all that.  Just in her short story below, we met through her now husband, who is my chiropractor at Intercare.  I wasn’t expecting anything from that meeting since I figured Michaela already had finalized her makeup artist options since the wedding was a few months away.

Both families come from a line of professionals and achievers, I admire the values that her mother Tang and father inculcated in their children.   Seeking higher education is always  worth pursuing more than the material values that are fleeting and superficial.  I also saw how the family came together and pulled out all the stops, to help, soothe and calm a nervous bride specially as the magic hour is nearing .

This is what class is all about.  I love how you were so cool and calm throughout your preparations and your inner glow definitely showed through, just like how a blushing Bride should be. Thank you for making me a part of your love journey,  I wish you and Miguel a happy and prosperous marriage filled with blessings, joy and happiness.

1. Please tell me a bit about yourself. What do you do for a living, what are your hobbies, passions?
Hi! I’m Mika. I’m an architect who specializes in sustainability. I work with the Adrian Smith + Gordon Gill Carbon Lab team that does a mix of ensuring energy efficiency, low carbon and LEED/WELL consulting. 
 
During my free time, I love to  paint, eat BBQ popcorn + watch movies, hike, play board games, and skate. I started skating with my sister earlier this year, and we both love it so much that we go at least once a week. 
 
2. How did you find out about me (Acie Fores Makeup Artist)? What made you want to work with me?
I first heard about you from my (now) husband Miguel. He randomly gave me a calling card saying his patient was a make-up artist and I should try her out. Admittedly, I didn’t call you RIGHT after that, because in my head – “he does not know the difference between foundation and primer” But a few days later, my tita had mentioned you too, saying that her friends had worked with you previously, and that you had made all her friends look amazing! 
 
3. How did you like the outcome of our time together, for your special day? 
Today’s forecast, bridal showers
I liked you trial pa lang! Haha! By that time, I had tried na three make-up artists and was already getting frustrated that I had not found “the one” for my big day. I sound so arte, but my skin is actually so sensitive. (Full make-up really feels like a chore because of how heavy it feels on my face.) I had broken out in rashes after the trial with make-up artist #3, and ended up with a bad stye with make-up artist #1. I was close to picking make-up artist #2 just cause I did not break out into rashes after the trial. Buti nalang, Miguel and my tita mentioned you. So, I said, “Sige na nga one more trial.” 
The minute you started prepping my skin I knew na you were different. I mean, how many people have tried a make-up artist who will exfoliate their skin and then massage it before the make-up? 
As the trial went on, you airbrushed my make up on. (My first time to try airbrushed make-up) Not only did it feel great – feeling like I didn’t have any make-up on my face, but I loved how you made me look too! I felt the make-up looked so natural – like I was still me, but a flawless, glowing version of me! Totally what I was going for, for my big day! 
So of course, on the day itself I sat on the make up chair with no worries at all. The full trust I had in you made all the difference. 
4. What’s one special memory you have of your wedding that you love? Could you share that photo with us?
It’s not the wedding itself, but the day before. Getting ready with my family was such an intimate time for me. This includes both my immediate family and my extended family. My extended family – siblings of my parents and their children, were with us prior to the wedding too. They all came to Tagaytay the day before and we spent the night hanging out. I felt as if they were all hand-holding me all the way to the wedding.
5). What was a good beauty moment for you during the wedding day itself?  
Can I say none? Haha! It’s not that I didn’t feel beautiful on the day, but I didn’t have what I would call a beauty moment. The day was beautiful over-all, because of the way everything fell into place.
6)  Favourite beauty product, application used during your wedding and why?
If you cant get to a dermatologist, this is the next best things to flake off dead skin cells and give you a smooth canvas, ready for makeup.
I really loved the Cure Aqua gel exfoliator that you used on me. I felt like it got (cause i use it regularly now) all the gunk/dead skin cells out. I also liked the eye massage. Felt great to get a facial massage on the day itself! 
7)  Any bridal tips you want to share for future brides planning their wedding?
Find the best suppliers for the big day – suppliers you are happy with, then on the day just watch them all work their magic and watch everything fall into place. 
8)  What is one thing you could change during your wedding preparation? 
I don’t know if I would change anything to be honest. Wedding planning was definitely stressful, but the day itself – the ceremony and dinner went perfectly. Everything that happened prior ended in something beautiful.
9)  Any beauty rituals you did or received that you want to share?
None really, aside from the Cure Aqua gel exfoliator that I mentioned in # 6.
10)  Favourite photo of you during the wedding and why.

The wedding ceremony was quick, and felt surreal. I didn’t realize I was smiling and laughing a lot too throughout the ceremony. So when I saw the photos, it was such a pleasant surprise to see so many photos where Miguel and I were just laughing. It’s such a great reminder of the day that unfolded, and how much fun we had (and have) together.

Products used:

Lisa Eldridge Foundation 13

MakeupbyMario Ethereal Eyes Palette

Dior Contour Palette 001 Universal

Dior glow Face Palette 001 Universal

Charlotte Tilbury Pillow Talk Blush

Makeup Forever Nude Creme Lippie 08

Gown:  Mark Bumgardner

Makeup:  Acie Fores
Hair: Vilma Legaspi
Photography:  C/o Bride Michaela Jaja Samaniego
Venue:  Anya Resorts Tagaytay, Antonio’s Tagaytay

Behind the Veil – De Jesus / Foo Nuptials

“Got everything I need right here”. Bride Cara

I was humbled and touched that choosing me as her makeup artist was due to the fact that my newfound career 12 years ago influenced her love for anything makeup .  This was confirmed by her mother and by Cara when I was tasked to do her wedding.  I was still not sure because Cara is an influencer and has a strong following.  She definitely can challenge my makeup skills on her IG page so I countered.  My style leans toward a more romantic look and I wasnt quite sure this is the look she wanted.  Obviously, I was kilig when she insisted I do her face.  Thank you Cara!

Every wedding is different, and how Cara and Jon met was not in a traditional sense wherein they were introduced by friends or they met at an event or social gathering.  Nowadays, social media has now become the new dating dynamic that replaces the old methods of meeting new people .  Bumble is the new best friend that connects people virtually.

I’ve known Cara to be a doer and a go getter, she started a clothing line  Crow, now temporarily on hold due to new priorities at work, she has been very outspoken with current issues.  She also has a generous spirit and a big heart, she helped raise funds and took care of her long time nanny who sadly passed away from cancer while running her business.

Jon, you married the right woman!  Fearless, strong and built with a heart of gold.  Bumble was the right matchmaker!

Here are excerpts of my Behind the Veil conversation series with Cara.

 

 

1). Please tell me a bit about yourself. What do you do for a living, what are your hobbies, passions?

I work as a brand manager for a wellness company but I started my career in the local beauty industry serving as the marketing lead for several cult favorite and home grown brands. I love anything to do with beauty.

2). How did you and Jon meet?

Bumble!

3. How did you like the outcome of our time together, for your special day?

I loved it as you were already someone I’ve known pretty much all my life so it was very comfortable and pleasant.

4. What’s one special memory you have of your wedding that you love? Could you share that photo with us?

 

When I first saw the entire look come together — I don’t wear dresses at all and while I love fashion and beauty, I don’t consider myself a girly girl. It felt nice and different to be dressed up in a wedding dress!

5). What was a good beauty moment for you during the wedding day itself?

I normally have dry and flaky skin so the fact that my skin looked glowy and well moisturized was a great beauty moment.

6) Favourite beauty product, application used during your wedding and why?

I loved airbrush makeup since it was my first time. It was soothing and different from my traditional makeup experiences.

7) Any bridal tips you want to share for future brides planning their wedding?

I think skin prep is really important especially for brides like myself with really dry skin. It truly makes a difference!

8) What is one thing you could change during your wedding preparation?

Nothing, everything went as planned!

9) Any beauty rituals you did or received that you want to share?

I got a facial, had my hair toned and got eyelash extensions prior to the ceremony. I also got nail extensions.

10) Favourite photo of you during the wedding and why.

Because it was the first time I tried the entire look with hair and makeup!

 

Best wishes to you Cara and Jon!!!

 

Photography:  Amilon Ignacio

Makeup Artist:  Acie Fores

Hairstylist:  Susan Salameda

Gown:  Haydee Garcia

Flowers:  Aina Zulueta

Jewels:  Miladay Jewels

 

Behind the Veil : Bianca and Joe Salud

Intimate Wedding

 

“My Dad is here with me”

Bianca lost her father about six years ago to cancer and when  I was prepping her for hair and makeup, that s when Bianca said those 6 words.  Dad was in the form of a yellow and black butterfly hovering among the plants in the garden.

She and I almost teared up.  True enough, the yellow butterfly was hovering until I finished her getting prepped.
I said, “Bianca your dad approves of Joe.”  Right away Bianca nodded and said her dad appeared in her dream and is really happy it’s Joe for her.
Bianca and Joe met at a Coachella concert but they went on separate groups but they shared similar friends.  Based on the best man s speech that night, it was Joe that fell head over heels the moment he met her.
I ve spent a little time with the couple before their December wedding over a beach weekend and you know when they re the right fit.  From what I gathered is that they seem to have a good head on their shoulders, Bianca just finished her MA in Education and Joe has his sights on the family business.
They described their wedding plans and I must say it is so appropriate and fitting to the present times.  S I M P L E not complicated is how they want their special day to be.  They dispensed with the unnecessary frivolities when it comes to the wedding preparations.  The only difficult task was trimming the guest list since both come from big families.
Bianca the ever practical lady, said she didn’t want a big fuss and didn’t need the special treatment since she preferred to spend it on their new home and Joe has plans of taking his Masters abroad.
There are so many positive things going on for this couple and they seem to be the perfect couple.

Your Dad was right Bianca, Joe is the perfect man for you.  You chose well.

1. Please tell me a bit about yourself. What do you do for a living, what are your hobbies, passions?

 I am an Elementary school teacher, I love working with kids, baking, crocheting, and ballet.
2. How did you find out about me (Acie Fores Makeup Artist)? What made you want to work with me?
I’ve worked with you in the past for graduation and loved working with you.
3. How did you like the outcome of our time together, for your special day?
Before Bianca said I Do
It was perfect!! Everything was perfect from the hair to the makeup, got so many compliments about it too 🙂
4. What’s one special memory you have of your wedding that you love? Could you share that photo with us?
I loved that it was someone who I’ve known my whole life and she knew how I liked my make up and what look I was going for. Wouldn’t have it any other way.

 5). What was a good beauty moment for you during the wedding day itself?

I loved that I didn’t have to keep stressing over how oily I was or just stress about eyelashes falling or mascara running.

6)  Favourite beauty product, application used during your wedding and why?

I’ve been meaning to look into the Chanel Tan De Soleil and now that I know the color works for me I will definitely make that purchase when I am able to find it.
    7)  Any bridal tips you want to share for future brides planning their wedding?
Intimate Wedding
Don’t stress over all the small things, everything will come together.
   8)  What is one thing you could change during your wedding preparation?
Nothing 🙂
   9)  Any beauty rituals you did or received that you want to share?
I need to exfoliate more, have been forgetting to do that.
   10)  Favourite photo of you during the wedding and why.

These pictures really highlight the makeup and hair which is exactly what I wanted.

Something old is new again! Full face makeup using highlighters and contouring products

 

 

I’ve always believed in maximizing the use of your products whether its beauty products or items you have in the kitchen or cupboard.  Now that we’re in the middle of another lockdown, we are staying indoors and getting to know every nook and cranny of our homes and doing a Marie Kondo in our garages, pantries and bedrooms.

For this tutorial, I’ve discovered a lot of makeup eye palettes, highlighting, contouring and bronzing products hiding in my drawers, some of them barely used or still brand new.  I honestly don’t need new makeup.  I decided to show you how you can mix them in your daily makeup routine while creating a beautiful classy look.

Tips and Tricks

  1.  For the face, mix a teaspoon size of your favorite luminizer or highlighter, in this case, I used MAC Strobe Cream with a cream foundation like Naturactor in the shade Ochre or 152.  This method also thins out a heavier consistency of foundation.  Do not mix a luminizer with a very dewy foundation as this can look too greasy on the face.  If you mix a highlighter with a matte or Demi matte foundation the result will be satin like and not over the top.
Cream or liquid Foundations are best suited to mix your luminizer with. Choose a matte or Demi matte foundation to give you a satin glowing finish.
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This has a pinky silver color that’s great with mixing with your favorite foundation. Not too warm or white, this is the perfect universal color.

 

2). I love layering cream and liquid products with their powder versions.  This method makes your makeup last longer.  I use the contour shade as a base for my eyelid crease and nose line.  The lighter shade can also be used as a base for the eye shadow on the lid.

 

This is the best dupe for Tom Ford’s Contour cream palette! Addiction in shade Gold Reflection 02,  is a universal contour shade for light to medium skin tones.

 

This is another affordable alternative, made by Rimmel, its so portable, and easy to apply! Insta Duo Contour Stick in Dark

 

I know you’ve seen me use this product in most of my videos. Chanel Soleil De tan is my HG of bronzers. Not too orange, it gives the right amount of warmth to the face. Use all over the eyelid or as a transition shade on the crease to give the eyes depth.

 

https://www.maccosmetics.com/product/13849/30735/products/makeup/face/powder/mineralize-skinfinish
MAC Soft and Gentle is exactly what it says. Its not shimmery or frosty. Its skin like. Apply on the highpoints of the face, cheekbone, brow bone and Cupid’s bow

 

https://www.makeupforever.com/hk/en/face/blush/artist-face-color-refill-MI000021102.html
Makeup Forever Highlighter H106, Irridescent Champagne is my choice for eyelid color. Swipe wet to give it a foil like texture.

3). Bought the wrong shade of powder?  Too dark?  Use them as bronzers or to contour your face.  I used this underneath my cheeks and to seal the cream products, on the nose line and eyelid crease and temples to give my face some depth.

Charlotte Tillbury Airbrush Powder in shade 4, don’t throw this away! This can be used as contour colors on the temples, nose line, eye crease and under the cheeks. Use a big powder brush and blending brush to avoid harsh lines.

 

4). Use lipsticks as cream blush!  If you think the shade of lipstick is either too light, too dark or just the wrong shade of coral, pink or red, use it as a base for blush and reinforce it with your powder blush.  Blend the two shades together for a seamless effect.

 

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Makeup Forever Rouge artist 24, a coral shade that is flattering to light to medium skin tones. You can also use this as a base for eye shadow when you feel like doing a neutral to natural makeup looks. Be sure to check if your product is safe to use for the eyes.

 

I hope you are all taking care of yourselves, let me know if you have other makeup tips that do double duty for you.  I would love to read your ideas!

 

 

 

 

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Brow How

 

“Brows are 90% of your selfies”.

Browgal Productions

 

While eyes are the windows of the soul, eyebrows express emotions best.  They frame the eyes, shape the face and they have the ability to bring your best features into focus while downplaying the flaws.  A popular trend is Microblading  making to foolproof to achieve perfect looking brows.  Choosing the right tattoo artist for this procedure is key.  Since my brows are not that sparse and light, I can still manage to do them myself.

If you have groomed brows, there is less need to do a full face makeup and it makes you look polished, youthful looking and rested.  Don’t worry if you have less than perfect eyebrows, you can achieve an aesthetically pleasing set by having them groomed, trimmed and filled with these easy steps.

 

1). Grooming

 

If you have them professionally groomed, look for a reputable salon or artist to do it.  If you are on a budget, do this once and ask her/him if they can teach you to groom them yourselves after.

Brush your eyebrow hairs upward with an eyebrow spoolie to smooth out the hairs.  Tweeze any unwanted hair from the top and from the bottom to achieve a clean look.

 

https://brightside.me/inspiration-girls-stuff/10-essential-tips-to-get-perfect-eyebrows-205255/
Plucking the brows

 

2).  The 3 point guideline

 

3). Choosing eyebrow color and filling in

Choose your natural brow color and add a hint of your hair color for a uniform look.  If your hair is black, choose a color that’s dark brown, soft brown or taupe to avoid a harsh looking brow.  If your hair is blond with brown eyebrows, get a color that’s in between to create a balanced look.

 

If you’re using a brow powder, apply color with an angled or square tipped stiff brush.  Deposit color in the middle of the brow until the tail.  This is where you want the darkest color to be.  With the leftover color on the brush, move towards the front of the brow where color is the lightest part to give a gradient effect.  Fill in the blank spots.  Brush brows with a a spoolie.  Repeat the process until you get the desired effect.

 

If you’re using a pencil, create a template by starting from he bottom of the brow and draw a line underneath until the tail.  Draw a line on top of the brow until the tail as well.  Brush with your spoolie to remove harsh lines.  Fill in the brow with light strokes of the pencil to finish off the brow color.

 

4). Polishing the shape

Use a concealer or light colored pencil to go over mistakes or over coloring outside the brow area.  This also creates a clean sharp edge to the brow.  You may use a cotton tip dipped in concealer or makeup remover,  Blend with your finger, sponge or brush.

 

5). Setting your brows

To keep them from staying in place, apply a clear brow gel to further keep hairs in placebo brushing upwards.  For advanced makeup tips, use soap brow if you prefer doing this step.  Spritz your spoolie with water and dip it into a clear soap and make a paste.  Brush this on your brows.

 

These are basic simple steps you can try to get your brows in shape and gain confidence to look your simple best every day.

 

 

https://www.instagram.com/tv/CMoaH3VH_MU/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

Feel Good, On the Go Makeup Video

Did you know that feeling good about yourself makes you more productive? Here’s an on-the-go, feel good  makeup look that could make each day feel a bit brighter 🥰

[My apologies for the background noise due to repairs in my home]

 

Everyone these days are glued to a gadget , sometimes multiple ones, to make us feel connected and entertained.  Meetings and work from Home are now conducted electronically through multiple platforms like Zoom, FB Messenger Video, Viber etc…  Digital presence has given rise to women and men (yes including men), to look their best in their meetings since you are with other members of your office team or clients and looks matter.

I’ve seen an increase in RingLight or other LED light panel usage online, including would you believe my favorite parish priest as well?   You see a round white halo in their irises to indicate that they are using good light to look good.

It may feel a bit trivial to put makeup on in these difficult times but it can help us put some semblance of routine by separating a workday from a weekend.  The idea of putting a game on face gives you a boost to start your day and make you feel better.  The ritual of putting yourself together and looking polished makes you feel centered and focused amidst these unsettling times.

So I hope I gave you a refresher and a quick makeup routine that you can incorporate in your daily life.

 

What are your beauty routines that you can share with me?

 

Makeup Used:

Face/Eye Prep:

Makeup Forever Ultra HD Serum (used as a primer)
Inglot HD Foundation Shade 75
Rephr Brush 19
Maybelline Fit me Matte Poreless Powder in shade 220
Maybelline Fit Me Concealer in shade Medium

Eyes/Brows:

Shu Uemura BrowSword Pencil Walnut Brown
Shu Uemura Soft Lasting Gel Pencil in 02 Med brown
Happy Skin Glam Squad Denise Go Ochoa Eye Palette
Artnet Eyeshdow Brush 116
Smith Cosmetics Blending Brush 222
Hakuhodo Pencil Point brush
Koji Eyelash Curler
NARS Climax Mascara

Cheeks:
MAC Persistence Lipstick used as cream blush
Makeup Forever Artist Face Color S214 Powder Blush
Makeup Forever Artist face Color H106 Highlighter
Smith Cosmetics Brush 222
Fan Brush
Dior Backstage Contour Palette

Lips:
Shu Uemura BG 935
Makeup Forever Artist Rouge Mat M 102

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Evening Skincare Routine with Makeup removal

In this series for #skincareforwomenover40, here is another video and blog post on what I do to make my 50+ something skin supple and hopefully delay the aging process.  While it is not problematic, caring for it still requires a little boost and TLC to keep it from going south.  So here is my step by step guide on how I care for it.

 

  1.  Remove your makeup and traces of dirt from your face with a gentle cleansing milk,  Squirt a few drops on the cotton pad and swipe from the center of the face,down the neck and forehead.  Use another cotton pad to remove eye makeup and swipe down and remove all traces of liner and mascara with a cotton tip.

 

Light cleansing milk to remove makeup and dirt in the face. Apply with a cotton pad and swipe from the center of the face, down the neck and the forehead.

 

2). Wash your face with a mild soap, I like the transparent soap Pears, as this reminds me of my childhood.  It leaves skin with no soap residue.

TIP: You can use your eyebrow spoolie spritzed with water and swipe the soap until  it forms a transparent paste on the spoolie and apply on your eyebrows to groom hair strands into place.

 

3). Exfoliate with Cure Nature Aqua Gel ( 2-3x/week) to remove dead skin cells on the face.  Apply this onto cleansed face and swirl the product on your face until you feel water beads form and lift up dead skin flakes from your face.  Rinse with water.  This is called gommage exfoliation.

This is perfectly non irritating on the skin since this product is mostly composed of Hydrogen water so no harsh chemicals will leave your face stripped of its natural oils, just dead skin.

 

 

4).   Apply your favorite toner to bring back the PH balance of the skin, I use Dr. Hauschka Clarifying toner.  I like the Rose smell and its not drying at all.  Either Spritz this on the face or apply with a saturated cotton pad.

 

5).  You can skip this step if you’re too tired, this is an added treat for your skincare routine.  The Mini Nuface Trinity is a FDA approved home device that mimics the laser procedures in the Dermatologist’s clinic.  While this will not replace a stronger current and effects in a professional medical clinic, this is a good alternative in experiencing anti aging benefits at home.  It is a 5 minute face lift using microcurrent that will tone and smooth out wrinkles.  You have to apply a face mask like consistency from the gel provided, it is Hylauronic acid and any excess can be massaged in the face.

 

For the first 2-3 months, use it 5x/week and thereafter, can be used 2-3x/week. For Maintenance, use as needed.

 

6).   Apply your favorite eye cream on the contour of the eye and on the undereye area.  I use Estee Lauder Perfectionist Cp+R,but I apply sparingly as this can be thick.  I switch eye creams depending on the season.  During the summer months, I use a water gel eye one and for cooler months I use this one.  As we age, ceramides can plump the skin surrounding the eye and reduce the lines around it.

 

 

7).  Apply your moisturizer, I use Sonia Roselli Water Elixir, again filled with Ceramides.   It is light and easily absorbed in the skin.  Massage into face and neck area.

The Dynamic Duo of Skin plumpers and hydration, this has multiple uses aside from its moisturizing properties. Scrape a little powder blush for a creamy flush on the cheek, mix a little pump into your foundation and you have a tinted moisturizer with skin benefits.

 

8).  Lip Balm

Often neglected but dry parched lips is a telltale sign you are not properly hydrated.  Apply every day and night to make lips smooth and kissable anytime of the day.

 

https://www.instyle.com/beauty/lips/smiths-rosebud-salve-lip-balm

 

So that’s it and hope you learned something new or maybe you needed a refreshed skincare routine, share with me what your evening skincare routine essentials are , I would love to hear from you!

 

 

Skincare for Women over 40 and above… and then some

Disclaimer:  The products featured here are not a paid promotion, these are products that I use and work for my skin type.  Please consult your Dermatologist or Skin Esthetician if you suspect you may be allergic to any of the ingredient components of the items featured here and to prescribe what will work for your skin type.

 

 

For the past 20 years, I’ve had oily to combination skin and as I’ve gotten older, my skin type had changed to Normal to Dry. My Dermatologist had said that this is due to changes in my body chemistry and hormones brought about by aging.  My normal areas like the cheek and sides of the forehead have gone dry and have patchy skin sometimes while my T-zone is not as oily in my 20’s.

Because of Aging, my face needs a little boosting, my jowls have slowly been more prominent, blame it on what doctors call a texting neck since we spend a lot of time hunched up looking down on our phones, my jawline needs definition and eyes have become a  little puffy due to poor diet choices and lack of sleep.

 

 

So here is what my skincare routine looks like and sometimes, depending on the weather, where my skin tends to be oily during the summer months and dry in the cooler months, I switch up skincare products to address current skin issues.

 

  1.  Cleanse the skin –  Use any cleansing soap that suits your skin type and make sure that it doesn’t strip your skin of its natural oils.  Over cleaning your face sometimes can make you produce more oil due to the lack of moisture and hydration in the skin.  If your face feels tight after a wash, your soap may be a bit too drying.  Switch to a milder soap that’s good for sensitive skin.

 

2). Tone –  Look for a toner that has no alcohol that can further dry your skin.  The purpose of a toner is to bring back the ph levels of your skin, remove the last traces of dirt in your face and remove minerals and chlorine from the water.  It also closes the pores.

I like the Japanese variant, the Elixir Lifting Moisture Lotion II, (a Shiseido product), good for normal to dry skin.  Its watery texture doesn’t leave skin feeling tight, just refreshed.  It contains Collagen to lift skin and give it a dewy effect.  I’m so happy with the purchase, I added a refill so I won’t run out.

 

3). As an added boost, I apply a Hyaluronic Acid to retain moisture in the face and plump up the skin.  When skin is plumped up, fine lines are not visible.  When skin is hydrated, it helps in cell production because skin is not fighting hydration.  Why I like this brand?  Its lightweight and easily absorbed in the skin.  The name Mineral 89 is derived from the number of minerals found in the volcanic water used in this formulation.  This acts as a moisturizer as well.

Alternatively, I use a Vitamin C and E serum prescribed by my dermatologist to brighten and plump my skin.  Pictured above.  I squirt 3-4 drops and apply on my face.

 

4). Moisturize –  Because of our tropical, humid weather,  most women shy away from oils because it will make their skin oilier.  With better research and development over the years skincare products have improved in texture, its availability to penetrate skin and since this is plant based, the science behind it supports the claim.    This is one of my favorite moisturizers because it’s easily absorbed and doesn’t feel heavy on the skin.  Apply a 3-4 drops and warm it against the palm of. your hand and massage it in the face.

 

https://buy.cosmeticsnow.ph/iteminfo/clarins-face-treatment-oil-lotus-30ml
Easily absorbed and not oily at all

 

5). Massage –  I saw this roller being demoed in a store in Japan, and what it does is, the rollers simulate physical kneading by a face esthetician on your face and neck to make it firmer and help contour the face.  For aging women that’s the jowl and jawline area.  The solar panel in the middle of the handle acts as a microcurrent, you know you’re doing it right if you feel a slight tug when you roll it across your face.  You can use this for the arms as well.  You may purchase this at Sephora online.  If this doesn’t fit in your budget, you may look for dupes in shopping sites but look for one that has platinum coating not plastic to minimize irritation.

What is pictured above is a dupe and the solar panel is missing.  The thicker roller I alternate using, not pictured here, contains the solar panel.  I was experimenting on the different rollers.

https://duty-free-japan.jp/narita/en/goodsDetail.aspx?sCD=5527450055
Refa Carat Roller simulates kneading techniques to depuff and refine the contours of the face.

 

6). Lash and Brow Serum –

I’ve tried the expensive ones but nothing worked,  I made a simple recipe using the Essential oils from Young Living and researched on the recipe.  (I’m a member of Young Living Oils), It’s made from Castor oil, Lavender, Cedarwood, Rosemary and Vitamin E oils, ingredients that help lengthen and speed up the growth of lashes.  I apply this on my brows and lashes 2x/day.  See results in 6 weeks to 2 months if applied religiously.

If you’re applying brows and mascara during the day, skip this step and apply at night.  It does work and most of all doesn’t cost a lot.

Lash Serum DIY
Lash Serum DIY

 

7). Eye Serum –

I use this eye roller from Clinique as it contains caffeine to depuff and lighten the eyebags.  Again, aging hasn’t been kind to my eye area, the top eye are is slowly sagging creating a hooded effect.  To counteract this, by day I use the lighter eye serum and at night I use a slightly thicker eye product and apply on the top corner and contour of the eye avoiding the lid and in the undereye portion as well.  The rollerball gives a cooling effect.  Put this in the fridge to maximize the cooling effect.

 

 

 

 

8). Massage eye area

This pandemic has caused me severe retail therapy habits.  This led me to this gadget that vibrates and helps the eye product penetrate the eye area.  Battery operated, it’s perfect for the smaller parts of the face and doesn’t cause electric shock.  It feels like a soothing hum that can put you to sleep.  It also helps in the circulation around the eye area, an often neglected area.  It helps minimize puffiness, use this around 1 minute per eye area.

https://www.fishpond.com.hk/Beauty/24k-Golden-Pulse-Facial-Massager-Beauty-Bar-Micro-Vibration-Face-Lift-Massage-T-bar/9999341882051
Soothing, helps in the circulation around the eye area.

 

9). Sunscreen

The Holy Grail of Skin protection, again this is water based and does not feel heavy on the face.  Since its geared for sports activity, the longevity of this sunscreen will last longer and give your UVB/UVA protection a longer coverage.  Dermatologists can never stress enough the importance of applying sunscreen as this prevents aging, wrinkles and pigmentation on the face. I’ve worn this under makeup and it doesn’t cause flashback.

I also caution Brides and clients sometimes to shy away from a high SPF as this gives a white cast on the face when photographed.  An SPF of 15-30 is good if worn under makeup.

 

This is the must have if you want to skip the 5 steps of skincare.

 

9). Lip Balm

One of my staples both in my personal and client makeup kit,  I bought this in one of my trips to France and discovered this in their pharmacies.  This was recommended by their in house sales staff as a bestseller.  It contains Honey, plant extracts, Shea Butter and Grapefruit essence, one jar is sold every 2 minutes!  It combats dry lips in the winter and she also taught me you can use this in the face when you have dry patches.  I bought a jar and 2 lip bullets to carry around with me.  It is now available locally in major department stores.

https://www.cultbeauty.com/mt/en/nuxe-reve-de-miel-lip-balm.html
You can use this on dry patches on the face too.

 

Do you have any skincare products you want to share with me?

You may purchase these products online at Sephora.com; Amazon, Lazada, Shopee and in Sm and Rustans Department Stores

 

Mothers Day Summer Makeup May 2020

I dedicate this video to All Mothers and daughters whose bond may never know the immense love they have, misunderstood in some ways but always a very powerful one. It will shape every relationship a daughter makes.

We had a blast doing this video and she even offered to edit it for me. Me thinks she wants to get away from doing her last projects for class.

The Sun was shifting and the light was a bit of a challenge. Anyway enjoy our takes on the Summer bronzy look. Thanks for watching!

Face:
Benefit Porefessional
Urban Decay Naked Foundation Shade 4
Maybelline Instant Age Rewind Concealer in Sand
Laura Mercier Translucent Setting Powder
Physician’s Formula Butter Bronzer 6676
Sunnies Face Airblush in Peached
NARS Liberté blush
Charlotte Tilbury Hollywood Flawless Filter Shade 5
Milani Highlighter Dayglo
Too Faced Hangover 3-1 setting spray

Eyes:
Innisfree Eye pads
Urban Decay Primer Potion
NewBorn Eyebrow Pencil B6
Milk Kush fiber gel brow in Grind
Urban Decay Born to Run palette
They’re Real Benefit Mascara

Lips:
Sunnies Face Lip Dip Girl Crush
Fenty Gloss Bomb Fenty Glow

 

I dedicate this video to All Mothers and daughters whose bond may never know the immense love they have, misunderstood in some ways but always a very powerful one. It will shape every relationship she will make. We had a blast doing this video and she even offered to edit it for me. Me thinks she wants to get away from doing her last projects for class. The Sun was shifting and the light was a bit of a challenge. Anyway enjoy our takes on the Summer bronzy look. Thanks for watching! Face:Benefit PorefessionalUrban Decay Naked Foundation Shade 4Maybelline Instant Age Rewind Concealer in SandLaura Mercier Translucent Setting PowderPhysician’s Formula Butter Bronzer 6676Sunnies Face Airblush in PeachedNARS Liberté blushCharlotte Tilbury Hollywood Flawless Filter Shade 5Milani Highlighter DaygloToo Faced Hangover 3-1 setting spray Eyes:Innisfree Eye padsUrban Decay Primer PotionNewBorn Eyebrow Pencil B6Milk Kush fiber gel brow in GrindUrban Decay Born to Run paletteThey’re Real Benefit MascaraLips:Sunnies Face Lip Dip Girl Crush Fenty Gloss Bomb Fenty Glow

Posted by Acie Forés on Monday, May 11, 2020

Lockdown , Work from Home (WFH) Makeup Part 1

Hey Everyone!
I have a renewed respect for makeup artists that film tutorials! Talking and applying makeup is not easy! I’m not comfortable in front of the camera, I prefer to be behind it. I miss doing makeup on someone and that is my comfort level.

It’s 30 min long, I’ve tried to incorporate a few tips, Its my first makeup video, enjoy the bloopers, I’m learning to edit and film DIY, comment if you enjoyed or liked this. Looking forward to hearing from you.

Product Breakdown:
FACE:

Jung Saem Mool Skin Nuder Foundation Medium Deep
Naturactor Cream Concealer S52
Charlotte Tillbury Airbrush Flawless Finish Powder Medium 2
Rimmel Insta Duo Contour Stick Medium
Glossier Cloud Paint Beam
Hourglass Ambient Lighting Palette
Charlotte Tillbury Filmstar Bronze and Glow Medium
NARS Dolce Vita Blush
Tatcha Dewy Skin Mist

EYES:
Shu Uemura Hard 9 Seal Brown 02
Jung Saem Mool Refining Eyeshadow Double Saddle Brown
MAC Fluidline Our Secret
Maybelline Lash Discovery Very Black
KOJI Eyelash Curler

LIPS:
Lisa Eldridge Velvet Beauty and Velvet Fawn

BRUSHES USED:

FACE:
LQ 11 Buffing Brush
Suesh Duo Fiber Concealing Brush
Hakuhodo Highlighting Powder Brush
Hakuhodo Contour Brush Ita Bake 60
NARS Yachiyo Blush Brush
MAC 159 Synthetic Brush
RanMor Fan Brush

EYES:
Clinique Spoolie Brush
Hakuhodo F 8431 Ougi Tsubomi Eyeshadow Brush
Hakuhodo J5523 Blending brush
Bdellium Tools 762 Angled Brush

 

Lockdown, WFH Makeup

Hey Everyone!I have a renewed respect for makeup artists that film tutorials! Talking and applying makeup is not easy! I'm not comfortable in front of the camera, I prefer to be behind it. I miss doing makeup on someone and that is my comfort level. It's 30 min long, I've tried to incorporate a few tips, Its my first makeup video, enjoy the bloopers, I'm learning to edit and film DIY, comment if you enjoyed or liked this. Looking forward to hearing from you. Product Breakdown:FACE:Jung Saem Mool Skin Nuder Foundation Medium DeepNaturactor Cream Concealer S52Charlotte Tillbury Airbrush Flawless Finish Powder Medium 2Rimmel Insta Duo Contour Stick MediumGlossier Cloud Paint BeamHourglass Ambient Lighting PaletteCharlotte Tillbury Filmstar Bronze and Glow MediumNARS Dolce Vita BlushTatcha Dewy Skin MistEYES:Shu Uemura Hard 9 Seal Brown 02Jung Saem Mool Refining Eyeshadow Double Saddle BrownMAC Fluidline Our SecretMaybelline Lash Discovery Very BlackKOJI Eyelash CurlerLIPS:Lisa Eldridge Velvet Beauty and Velvet FawnBRUSHES USED:FACE:LQ 11 Buffing BrushSuesh Duo Fiber Concealing BrushHakuhodo Highlighting Powder BrushHakuhodo Contour Brush Ita Bake 60NARS YAchiyo Blush BrushMAC 159 Synthetic BrushRanMor Fan BrushEYES:Clinique Spoolie BrushHakuhodo F 8431 Ougi Tsubomi Eyeshadow BrushHakuhodo J5523 Blending brushBdellium Tools 762 Angled Brush

Posted by Acie Forés on Sunday, April 5, 2020