Resilience in White: Behind the Veil Series, Beatriz Gonzales Marañon

 

Bride Bea Gonzales has recently penned a blog on her personal social media account narrating her struggles with mental health, her surgeries during childhood and her recent struggles coping with the pandemic.  Emotionally not easy.

I did her makeup and hair earlier this year sort of her Bridal trial if you will.  Her mom is a client of mine and we met during the 25th wedding anniversary celebration, which Bea organized for her parents.  She struck me as a sweet, polite and smart young woman and she still is, but beneath the smiles there is always a story.

I never knew about her struggles since she was 14 years old, the many surgeries and her diagnosed bi polar disorder.  She overcame them through the best support system she ever had, her parents, family and friends to get through her trials.  Her Mom Jo was instrumental in her healing like most mothers do, Moms help their children no matter the circumstances.

 

 

Here is our chat together:

1. Please tell me a bit about yourself. What do you do for a living, what are your hobbies, passions?

I’m Bea Gonzales-Marañon, an artist, writer, storyteller, and mental health advocate… who works in tech. It’s not your usual combination, but it’s been a fun experience shaking up the software industry with all sorts of out-of-the-box ideas.

2. What inspired the choice of your bridal makeup look, and how does it complement your overall wedding style?

I’ve been a client of Acie for years and at this point, I don’t even need to show her my pegs! For our wedding, my husband and I actually decided not to give most of our suppliers any pegs and gave them creative freedom. The result? Suppliers that really gave it their all. 

3. How did you like the outcome of our time together, for your special day?

As usual, I had fun working with Acie! We had a morning wedding, so prep time started at roughly 2:30 AM. That didn’t stop us from playing 90s music and working on q quirky reel, though. Acie was super game to take part in my shenanigans. 

4. What’s one special memory you have of your wedding that you love? Could you share that photo with us?

Exchanging our vows in private. It was such an intimate moment of pure love for each other. 

 

5). What was a good beauty moment for you during the wedding day itself?  

Having my photos taken in a forest-like area, as if I was in Taylor Swift’s Folklore era. The sun hit my face and gown just right to make the photos look ethereal… even if they were just taken in a vacant spot by the parking lot. 

 

6)  Favourite beauty product, application used during your wedding and why?

THE PREP. Every cold thing Acie put on my face felt so good and was much-needed after only a few hours of sleep. It was a nice, thoughtful step that I’ve noticed really sets her apart from other makeup artists I’ve worked with. 

7)  Any bridal tips you want to share for future brides planning their wedding? 

TRUST YOUR SUPPLIERS. There will always be setbacks and imperfections, and that’s totally okay! Trust me, when you treat your suppliers as friends and give them your full trust, they will do their best. Aim to be a Bridechilla, not a Bridezilla! 

Also, focus on your husband and yourself. When the couple feels the love, the guests feel the love. 

 

8)  What is one thing you could change during your wedding preparation?

Have the wedding a tiny bit later in the morning. More sleep is always a plus!

9)  Any beauty rituals you did or received that you want to share?

I went to my dermatologist (Aivee Clinic) 1 month, 2 weeks, and 1 week before the wedding. I had them analyze my skin and prepare a regimen that would keep my skin glowing ’til the event. 

 

10)  Favourite photo of you during the wedding and why.

Probably our couple photo in the Taylor Swift Folklore forest. It looked really magical and professional! Another would be our photo right after our private vows. We were both still teary-eyed, taking in each other’s words. 

 

11) Can you share any beauty rituals or skincare routines you followed in the weeks leading up to your wedding for that extra bridal glow?

I kept my skincare routine simple: Double cleanse, moisturize like there’s no tomorrow, add some anti-acne cream just in case, and drink lots of water.

12) What role did your makeup artist play in helping you feel confident and beautiful on your wedding day?

She enhanced my features, rather than make me look like a totally different person. She also made sure everything was water-proof and would remain intact until the end of the event. I didn’t even have to try to hold back my tears! I could let myself feel all the feels and take in every magical moment of the day. 

 

 

 

Bea’s journey was the courage to embrace vulnerability. She shattered the stigma surrounding mental health by openly sharing her struggles, breaking the silence that often surrounds these issues. She also inspired others to seek help without shame or fear.

“ Why aim for perfection, when you can instead aim to serve as an inspiration?”  Well said Brava Bea!

Photo :  Chissai for TeamPatdy
Gown:  Rolan Dysangco Cubillas
Makeup:  Acie Fores
Hair:  Susan Basaysay
Event Planner:  Kalila Events

Behind the Veil – De Jesus / Foo Nuptials

“Got everything I need right here”. Bride Cara

I was humbled and touched that choosing me as her makeup artist was due to the fact that my newfound career 12 years ago influenced her love for anything makeup .  This was confirmed by her mother and by Cara when I was tasked to do her wedding.  I was still not sure because Cara is an influencer and has a strong following.  She definitely can challenge my makeup skills on her IG page so I countered.  My style leans toward a more romantic look and I wasnt quite sure this is the look she wanted.  Obviously, I was kilig when she insisted I do her face.  Thank you Cara!

Every wedding is different, and how Cara and Jon met was not in a traditional sense wherein they were introduced by friends or they met at an event or social gathering.  Nowadays, social media has now become the new dating dynamic that replaces the old methods of meeting new people .  Bumble is the new best friend that connects people virtually.

I’ve known Cara to be a doer and a go getter, she started a clothing line  Crow, now temporarily on hold due to new priorities at work, she has been very outspoken with current issues.  She also has a generous spirit and a big heart, she helped raise funds and took care of her long time nanny who sadly passed away from cancer while running her business.

Jon, you married the right woman!  Fearless, strong and built with a heart of gold.  Bumble was the right matchmaker!

Here are excerpts of my Behind the Veil conversation series with Cara.

 

 

1). Please tell me a bit about yourself. What do you do for a living, what are your hobbies, passions?

I work as a brand manager for a wellness company but I started my career in the local beauty industry serving as the marketing lead for several cult favorite and home grown brands. I love anything to do with beauty.

2). How did you and Jon meet?

Bumble!

3. How did you like the outcome of our time together, for your special day?

I loved it as you were already someone I’ve known pretty much all my life so it was very comfortable and pleasant.

4. What’s one special memory you have of your wedding that you love? Could you share that photo with us?

 

When I first saw the entire look come together — I don’t wear dresses at all and while I love fashion and beauty, I don’t consider myself a girly girl. It felt nice and different to be dressed up in a wedding dress!

5). What was a good beauty moment for you during the wedding day itself?

I normally have dry and flaky skin so the fact that my skin looked glowy and well moisturized was a great beauty moment.

6) Favourite beauty product, application used during your wedding and why?

I loved airbrush makeup since it was my first time. It was soothing and different from my traditional makeup experiences.

7) Any bridal tips you want to share for future brides planning their wedding?

I think skin prep is really important especially for brides like myself with really dry skin. It truly makes a difference!

8) What is one thing you could change during your wedding preparation?

Nothing, everything went as planned!

9) Any beauty rituals you did or received that you want to share?

I got a facial, had my hair toned and got eyelash extensions prior to the ceremony. I also got nail extensions.

10) Favourite photo of you during the wedding and why.

Because it was the first time I tried the entire look with hair and makeup!

 

Best wishes to you Cara and Jon!!!

 

Photography:  Amilon Ignacio

Makeup Artist:  Acie Fores

Hairstylist:  Susan Salameda

Gown:  Haydee Garcia

Flowers:  Aina Zulueta

Jewels:  Miladay Jewels

 

How to get the Lit-From-Within glow.

 

Now that Covid restrictions have eased up on most parts of the world, Currently I see events and weddings resuming although cautiously,  I couldn’t ‘ve been happier and excited.  We’ve had 2 1/2 years of lockdown to learn how the disease works, we have seen the beneficial effects of being vaccinated and the more we know the more we get better at learning how to cope with the pandemic.

So the past few months, have seen me working at weddings beginning at the start of this year with all the Covid protocols in place and frankly I’m enjoying the intimate celebrations.  Things move faster, it becomes more special and memorable.

So I’ve put together a few things that inspire rebirth, positivity and radiance since my beauty philosophy is to always enhance what’s already there, here they are:

 

Skin:

Cure Natural Aqua Gel

 

I always start off with a fresh canvas and I normally ask Brides to exfoliate their skin prior to the makeup.  This ensures that there are no dry flaky skin that can hinder the absorption of products that can give the skin a boost in preparation for the makeup.  Most of them usually get surprised how much dead skin comes off with this application.  Its called gommage exfoliation.

 

Glossier Super Glow Vitamin C with Magnesium Serum

 

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We all know that Vitamin C when applied to the skin brightens the face.  This is a Vitamin C derivative (Magnesium Ascorbyl Phosphate aka MAP) which helps even out skin tone and improve the appearance of dark spots (and because it’s stable, it won’t oxidize or degrade after you open the bottle), while Magnesium PCA enhances hydration and replenishes moisture, so skin looks recharged, fresh, and glowy.  It has all the good stuff, Jojoba Oil, Shea Butter, and Sunflower Seed Oil and Evodia Rutaecarpa Fruit Extract to condition and nourish the skin.  Its lightweight, and the fragrance-free emulsion soaks in immediately with no filmy residue.  (source:  Glossier.com)

 

Sonia Roselli Water Elixir, Water Oil

 

Formulated with Ceramides, the water elixir plumps out the skin and gives it a hydration boost.  It helps restore the skin barrier and calms redness.  Added to this is the water oil applied to the cheeks and neck to hydrate dry skin.  Both products are lightweight not oily, greasy at all.  I know, you’re probably thinking oil on top of a serum may be a little too much for our humid weather.  Trust me this doesn’t make you feel oily.  The Water oil contains Squalane oil, Camellia Seed Oil, Avocado oil, Sea Buckthorn oil, Argan and Rice bran oil to name a few.  Some of these have antibacterial properties to heal and make the skin supple.  Apply 1 pump and massage into the face and neck.  Most skin types I work with are actually dehydrated from either over scrubbing  or not drinking enough water.

Moisturizer

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Applying a moisturizer on top of the water oil seals the skin to make it plump, hydrated and primed.  Make sure that the moisturizer you apply is the right one for your skin type.

 

Face Roller

 

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I use a face roller to massage away any tension, puffiness and to warm up circulation on the face.  Most Brides are holding so much tension and stress from their planning that the jaw and neck are usually hot spots that need relaxation and de stressing.

 

Ice Roller

 

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To add to the chill factor, this is the last step in my skin prep to further soothe irritation, redness and puffiness.  Stored in the freezer, these rollers constrict the blood vessels on the face.  I recently added this to my personal skincare regimen specially after I had laser done on my melasma last year.  This really soothed my face after that hot and warm sensation from the laser treatment and brought the redness and swelling down immediately.

 

Makeup

Jung Saem Mool Foundation

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I chose this foundation mainly because of the coverage it provides.  Its dewy when applied but doesn’t look oily.  Its light,  the texture is serum based but slightly thicker not as watery.  Typically Korean made, you can be assured that you are going to get dewy, its ingredient list is comparable to the other Western brands and the shades are suited for the Asian skin tone.  You can apply this 2 – 3x for medium to full coverage.  One pump is really enough to cover the face but for longevity and fuller coverage I used 2 pumps and I had a little more to spare.  Wait a few minutes for the first layer to sink in before applying the next layer.  I used a blending brush to apply then tapped a beauty blender sponge to even out the coverage and to make it look more seamless.  The shade I used was Medium.  I also love the packaging.  Nude just like the coverage.  Its your skin but better.

 

Charlotte Tillbury Flawless Filter

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Its Airbrush in a bottle.  I apply this on the high points of the face, top of cheekbones, cupid’s bow, bridge of the nose to highlight the face.  I sometimes add this to the foundation to give the face an added shimmer.  Ingredients include a polymer, porcelain flower extract, glossy oil to give the face a blurring effect.  Its a skin filter so to speak.

 

 

Dior Universal Glow Face Palette

 

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Another secret weapon is this palette.  It can be used on the face and the eyes.  I use the Rosy and yellow gold shades for the cheeks and eyelids, the copper shade can also be used in the hollows of the cheeks and the eye crease as well.  Its subtle highlight gives the skin that natural sheen and luminosity without the lit from NASA space effect.  If you have overpowdered your face, apply this with a soft brush to remove the chalky and look.

 

Charlotte Tillbury Pillow Talk Cheek to Chic

 

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Swish and Pop as the product description says, its a nude pink shade that flatters everyone.  I swirl my blush brush on the two shades and apply on the cheeks for an instant glow.

 

Most of these products are available at Sephora, Shopee, Lazada and SoniaRoselli.com  Share with me your other favorite products that give you that lit from within glow.    Take care and keep hydrated!